Detachment (January 2008)

As you know, I am so thrilled and excited about Abraham-Hicks (www.Abraham-Hicks.com) and have been studying this material since the late 80’s. The more I study it, the happier I get. I believe I have gone an entire year without basically any moments where I’ve dropped below a 10 vibration on a 0 to 10 scale! The tools have changed my life.

So something I heard about Oprah is that as she goes higher and higher she is reaching down and holding the hands of others, bringing them up. I liked that analogy, so whatever I learn, it is my intention for my students and friends to benefit from the knowledge.

One of their ideas which is Universal is about detachment. The way they present it is this: We want to manifest things, situations, and experiences in order to be happy and to feel good. So why not just be happy and feel good right now. That is such a simplistic way to say this, but it’s true. When talking with people, I feel how strongly they believe that if they could just get what they want, they would be high as kites, but this is simply not true. However happy we are right now is exactly how happy we will ultimately be, when all that stuff materializes. I see it with Lottery Winners, with Extreme Make-over people and with the people around me. Absolutely NOTHING on the outside will ever make us feel any differently than we feel right now. This is one big illusion.  Nothing that we can create will make us happier than we are this minute. Yes, we could be happy for maybe ½ day, but then the vibration goes right back to where it was before. Our vibration is a set point and we set it of our own volition.

What is very amusing to me is that many, many people come to me to get pregnant. How this happened, I do not know! Maybe I’m just so detached on the subject, that when they say: “Oh I’m a medical doctor and I’ve spent 7 years doing in vitro, etc. and it’s a medical impossibility for me to get pregnant, blah, blah, blah,” I say: “Oh it will take 3 classes.”. How could I say that? I guess because I do not know nor relate to their pain, anguish and frustration. I just think: “What could be simpler!” And they get pregnant within 3 classes.

But recently I had a client have an experience that really blew my mind. She had been working with others to get pregnant for at least 7 years, maybe more. Then after a relatively short time, she called me with the news. She was pregnant! I was ecstatic for her! Then, within a few weeks, she let me know that she had miscarried. I was bracing myself for the next session. When she called me, she was perfectly OK. I asked her: “How long did it take you to get over this?” “A few minutes” she said. I was floored! I realized in that holy instant that a huge miracle had taken place. You see I believe her detachment from the situation was a far greater miracle than the manifestation of pregnancy. When we are craving something, we are actually at a lower vibration that the desired outcome. When we are detached from something, we are actually at the same vibration as the desired outcome. So now, she can really get pregnant, maintain it and have a long and wonderfully happy life. 

I say to my Abe friends all the time: “If absolutely nothing ever happened in my life from this moment forward, I am the happiest person in the world.” And the irony is that all kinds of super fantastic things are coming to me all the time!  You see, I am not hitching my wagon to some ever changing, ever illusive dream that is out there supposedly trying to bring me happiness. It’s right here inside of me and it’s right NOW.

Affirm often:
I am a joyous, radiant, effervescent being filled with the light of God and forever drawing to me miraculous people, situations and events. All is very very well in my world, right this very minute!

Sincerely, Joni 

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